Are U Holding Yourself Back!??!

10/13/2012 06:01:00 PM Master Marketing , Money leveraging 0 Comments

                

        A lot of times we are holding ourselves back without even realizing it.  The mentality and positions we take are very detrimental to our overall attitude and productivity!! Take a minute to here Viatali's take on it...

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          Let’s talk about the REAL enemy of success.

With the elections coming up here in US, all politicians on both sides like to play the “blame game”.

And I totally get that because that’s EXACTLY what stirs people up.

Now don’t worry, I’m NOT gonna get into politics here, although I have some very strong political views, but that’s not what I’d like to talk about here.

Instead I want you to forget ideology for a moment and kind of stand back looking at it as an observer.

The Democrats blame Republicans and the Republicans blame the Democrats.

Right now it doesn’t matter who’s right, what matters is…

… that people buy into this “blame game”.

It’s a MAJOR psychological principle, and one that’s used to influence and persuade people very effectively…

… and that is finding a “scapegoat”.

Someone else’s responsible for your problems.

If you’re fat, sick, broke, out of a job, etc…. it’s not your fault.

Well you know what?

It works like crazy.

Because people don’t want to admit and take responsibility for anything.

It’s so much easier to blame who ever is in the office at the time.

And guess what?

No politician EVER wants you to know this.

You can actually learn A LOT just from watching how skillfully each positions themselves as the savior while demonizing the other.

Well… the truth is, neither side will ultimately help you get what you want.

Sure you may feel closer in ideology to one or the other, but ultimately, no matter who wins the election, they’re NOT going to show up to your doorstep with a magic wand and make your problems disappear.

My attitude is this…

No matter who wins (although I definitely want one side over the other), my financial situation isn’t gonna change one iota..

If you want to make more money, in spite of the economy, it’s YOUR RESPONSIBILITY to do what you need to do.

As entrepreneurs we develop our own economy, with determination and the willingness to adapt to the current market environment and conditions.

See, when you show up to a J-O-B, you can’t really control the direction the company is going, and you definitely can’t control the decisions made at the top, both good and bad.

But when you’re in charge, you control your course of action 100%.

I cringe when I see and hear people foaming at the mouth, waving their fists that the government is responsible for the LACK in their lives… lack of a job, lack of a good income, lack of health insurance, etc…

And although to a degree the government plays a big role in creating the overall conditions for economic prosperity, no one but YOU is responsible for the decisions you’ve made in your life that have led you up to this point.

The only thing you can blame others for is selling you on the wrong plan…

… go to school, get a good education so you can get a good job and you’re set for life.

That plan never worked and if you’ve awakened to this fact, well, nothing you can do to change the past, but you sure as heck can do something to change the future, can’t you?

Which is why I believe right now is the BEST TIME to be an entrepreneur, because there’s no safe, secure jobs or careers for the most part.

But there’s a TON of security in creating your own safety net and building your own asset, one you can control.

My old upline told me something very wise when I quit my job to go full-time into network marketing.

He said… Vitaly, the worst that can happen even if you won’t make it here, is you’ve got the skills to go and make $50K, $70K or even $100K any time you want to.

And he was right, the skills he was referring to are selling and communication, although that was way before I spent years polishing and perfecting them.

There’s nothing more important you can learn to create financial security in your life than sales, marketing and develop great people skills.

But here’s the thing that drives people like you and I crazy…

… MOST people will never take responsibility for themselves and their lives.

It’s far to easy to just blame someone else, throw their hands up and play a victim.

Which is why most people you try and recruit don’t want to do this.

Because if they step up, they’ll have to be responsible for the first time in their life, they won’t be able to blame anyone else for their lack of success.

And this attitude is the REAL ENEMY OF SUCCESS.

Fortunately, as I’ve put in my last post, you and I have a choice… to either give in and be like the rest of the society…

… OR step up to the plate and choose to be 100% responsible for your success.

The choice is always yours.

Cheers,

                   

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